Sunday, 26 May 2019

Teen yoga

Teen Yoga 
Teens were made for yoga! Those transition years are the perfect time to discover yoga – not just the asana but the subtle aspects, too: breathwork, relaxation techniques, mudras and meditation, all play of part in helping the teens develop a sense of self as well as improved self confidence and equip them better to face the variety of challenges and changes in a calmer more mindful way.

The asana – postures – are vitally important alone. Years (already!) of sitting slumped over desks, computers, hot games consoles and the rest, coupled with carrying heavy school and sports bags asymmetrically as well as that cowering inward posture of 'protection/distrust' adopted by so may teens, especially girls, as they try to avert their eye gaze from the outside world, needs to be addressed before bones calcify and it becomes more difficult to even out the kinks they create. Back and shoulder aches are so common among the youngsters I teach. Wriggling movements alongside alignment tips can help ease aches and protect the spine. Sometimes teens are totally unaware of what they are doing as they round forward and hunch their shoulders and dump into their lower back. It's lovely to watch them getting back into their bodies (slowly and cautiously for some of them) and re discovering the freedom of moving.

Many of the teens have poor or limited diets and gentle twists are great for getting sluggish digestive systems going - that's true for most kids! Simple sun salutations with lunges, and adding a gentle kneeling twist are easy for them to remember and do daily.

Pair and group postures can give a sense of support, help build teamwork skills, and create bonds. It's also great fun. I always bring in a few poses that can be done in pairs including a few easy acro yoga drills.

Pranayama techniques such as single alternate nostril breathing and the amusing sounding Sitali (pronounced with a 'Sh' at the start) and Bhramari (humming bee breath) practices are great for drawing teens attention to the feel, sound and general awareness of their breath. Then it's easier to help them use breath techniques to calm themselves as they need it e.g. before exams, or in the presence of someone they fancy! Similarly mudras have a great role in focusing the mind and also aiding dexterity, especially Hakini, Eagle and Fearless heart mudra which they all seem to enjoy doing.

Meditation? I often challenge the teens (and younger kids) to stay still and think of nothing for a minute.... try it yourself with a timer, harder than you think it will be! Trataka candle gazing is usually a big hit and gives them something to focus on as well as being good for the eyes.

Many have trouble sleeping so the idea of observing the breath as well as Savasana and yoga Nidra are always popular... in fact I'm sure some come for the "lie down bit" ;)

If you do yoga and haven't thought about it, try and practise at home with your teens, and teens if you do yoga, get the old folk doing it too. My public teens classes are currently Mondays after school, 4.30pm - 5.30pm at Yoga Junction, Crouch End, London N8. If you're in the area pop by.




GET OUTSIDE!

It's hard to beat the feeling of doing yoga and meditation outside, especially on sunny mornings or early evening when you can witness the sun rising or setting as you practice or sit.

I love doing yoga on the beach and for years I would only attempt it in the early or twilight hours to avoid crowds and embarrassing stares, but I've grown so used to it now, I just forget who's around, and sometimes the busier it is, the less bothered I (and others) seem to be! It's especially lovely to practice with family and friends.

My sons seem more bothered about stares of passers by, but even they are becoming less self conscious! Bank holiday weekend on a busy, sunny beach in North Devon with not much space between bodies and boards, one of my sons actually suggested a yoga session to help him pop-up on his board, and to make sure I was warm enough to entice me into the chilly waters!

He's game for experimental sequences and we were midway through a fun energetic flow when we noticed three famillies around us standing and staring and some of the younger family members copying us! I just projected my voice into busy class mode and changed the tone to suit their tender age adding lizards and frogs and puppy dogs so they didn't feel left out! Maybe they'll remember the beach yoga and keep it up at home!

Tuesday, 5 February 2019

Finding balance in chaos

Yesterday, after teaching what I thought was a particularly chaotic mum and toddler yoga class, where half the mums took time out to feed babes or chat between themselves, while others tried keenly to enjoy their yoga with all the tots dancing and congregating around their mat, several of the mums said the sessions were the highlight of their week! One said it was the only thing that made her leave home in the cold and brave getting a bus with her toddler. It made me laugh out loud and realise just how much we see things through our own eyes and perspective. Of course the classes can never go as planned, life with a toddler is always chaotic, and full of the little unpredictable moments, generally initiated by the tots, that add colour to our existence and make us appreciate the nuances of life.

That has been one of my big goals for the year, to get out of my way, and leave space to let life reveal more, yet while there is freedom to explore, still remain clear and focused.

The eagle - celebrated in Garudasana, which I teach a lot in post natal and mums/toddler yoga – is an amazing creature on many levels. An eagle has incredible peripheral vision. When it flies high, it has about a 340-degree field of vision, yet it can hone in on one tiny thing, like a prospective snack, spotted more than 3 km away.

What a great asset, to be able to see the big picture, the whole world, yet hone in clearly on what's important.

The reason Garudasana is so good for us, and especially postnatal women, is that the standing balance with the arms and legs entwined encourages drawing into the mid-line, engaging the pelvic floor muscles and regaining internal strength and support. It is energising and uplifting, yet all the while we are drawing into the centre, finding inner strength and balance, we are spreading our wings to fly and broaden our horizons. Life is all about balance, and staying calm and focused in the midst of challenges, such as balancing on one leg in yoga with a tot climbing over or under you ;0